Thanks for the invite, but unfortunatelly I live too far from you. Otherwise, I would be very pleased.
Being involved in hi-fi for quite some time, I had a numerous occasions to listen to Linn Klimax 350A (old and new with Organik DACs - owned by my good friend), Legacy Audio Aeris (with Wavelet), B&O BeoLab 90, Kii Audio Three (with and without BXT), Dutch & Dutch 8c, new and old active Dynaudio Focus, quite a number of Genelec, Neumann, Dynaudio and similar studio speakers (I have a couple of friends who work in studio), quite a number of DIY active speaker projects with and without DSP... I've tried many different things in my own room, in my own system(s).
So, I'm speaking from my own experience. YMMV, of course.
And I repeat myself - I haven't heard DSP which doesn't introduce issues I've mentioned. I didn't say it doesn't exist. I will be VERY happy once I find it.
Some are better, some are worse. Aforementioned DSP in Roon is not good. I wouldn't use it in all but the worst rooms / with the worst acoustics and no other way to fix the issues.
For Dirac, Trinnov, ARC, Room Perfect... I can understand usage in HT/surround systems, but if possible I would avoid it - I would only equalize/optimize subwoofers.